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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 17.06.2025 12:10

How does one succeed in life?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How did you cope when someone you love, dealing with hyper-independence and trauma, felt they needed space to heal alone? Were you able to support them without overstepping, and did you eventually reconnect? How did that journey unfold?

Ask yourself:

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Atheists, there is a god up there in heaven and he loves you so much that he sent his son to die the worst death imaginable and then to turn into a zombie all to save you from sin. Why do you reject him?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Does not procrastinate.

If there exists a “New York of Australia”, is it Sydney or Melbourne?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What makes girls masturbate?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How rough can the ferry passage from Hull to Rotterdam be in the autumn ( at the end of October )?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

My stepmother has banned me from the family. Can she legally keep me from going to my father's funeral?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What is the difference between heaven and heavens?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Is it true that in 2028 there will be a new AIDS variant that will wipe out all the LBGTQ+ people?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What would be the lowest score with 9 strikes and no gutter balls?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why do I feel so down and not happy anymore? I also feel really tired and non-motivated. Is that normal for someone to feel that way?

Making more friends is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Heart in distress? 9 silent symptoms you shouldn’t overlook - Times of India

Hangs out with loser friends.

That's it for today.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What was your experience when trying GHB?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Procrastinates a lot.

How should one respond to compliments such as "You are so special" and "I'm lucky to have met you" from a guy?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Do not set goals—set systems.

What I need from you?

Why do so many autistic adults deal with self-hatred?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.